From shopping etiquette to avoiding lengthy lines, here’s what to know









In a city where top-charting musicians, renowned chefs, illustrious fashion designers and Hollywood stars live and eventually die, L.A. estate sales offer an insight into the lives of the rich and famous you wouldn’t otherwise get, but on a secondhand shopper’s budget. It’s the reason hundreds of people lined up outside the Studio City home of beloved “Jeopardy!” host Alex Trebek after his death last year for the opportunity to buy — or set their eyes on — his director’s chair, awards and memorabilia such as a Spalding basketball signed by Lakers icon Kareem Abdul-Jabbar.
Every week, there are at least a few estate sales, also sometimes called “tag sales,” happening in L.A. It’s not just celebrity treasures that are up for grabs but also the beloved belongings of everyday people, as well as items from TV shows and films that have stopped production and defunct businesses like women’s co-working space the Wing, which in March attracted hundreds of shoppers seeking something cool for a bargain price.
“I was at a sale where the person was a magician, and he had a stage with all the props, and it was unreal,” says Mahan Safaei, owner of Golden Age Estate Sales, which hosted Singer’s recent estate sale. “And then two houses down, you have a Victorian house that’s full of antiques from 200 years ago. So there’s just a variety of stuff. You never know what a house might have inside of it.”
The most common reasons people have estate sales are known as the three Ds: death, divorce and downsizing. So, unlike shopping at a yard sale or thrift store, where you might pick up an item someone has decided they no longer want (and would like a little cash for), an estate sale offers the chance to shop a curated collection the owner, for whatever reason, can no longer hold on to.
“I look at [estate sales] as someone passing on their items so other people can enjoy them and get good use out of them,” says 30-year-old Dash Anderson, who’s been going to estate sales since she was a child. “I feel honored to touch something that someone else has touched and it’s not just being thrown out. I’m also finding use and meaning out of these items, and I can hopefully pass them on to someone else” someday.
Since the pandemic, there’s been an uptick in Gen Z shoppers going to sales to find distinctive pieces, especially vintage clothing and accessories, thanks to influencers like Solomon and “thrift queen” Macy Eleni of Beverly Hills, who runs the Blazed and Glazed accounts chronicling her estate sale finds on TikTok and YouTube.
“So much of my audience are younger people and Gen Zers who are so into sustainable fashion and want to learn different ways to shop,” says Eleni. “It feels like a whole different world from when I went to my first estate sale in 2020, and I was in line with 10 other people who were in their 50s and 60s. Now, there’s like massive lines of every demographic.”
Figuring out how to tackle the enchanting world of L.A. estate sales can feel daunting, but the best way to learn is from the experts. (I was new to this world too, having just attended my first sale in November.) I spoke to social media influencers, estate sale liquidators — essentially, the people who host the sales — and folks I met while shopping to get tips for finding the best ones, dodging lengthy lines and securing an item you desperately want.
Shopping sustainably, saving money
Start by reading
the listing
The listings commonly feature photos of the items that will be available for purchase but don’t always show everything. For this reason, it’s wise to read the text description as well, which may include more details on what’s being sold, says Solomon of Estate Sale Freaks. Some of the best stuff might not even be mentioned in a listing.
The pictures “can give you a sense of the kind of stuff there might be, but then when you go, it’s like, ‘Oh, they didn’t even capture anywhere near the amount of stuff that’s here,’ ” says Solomon. “So there’s always this question mark of what’s there, and if I don’t go, I’ll never know.”
Don’t judge a house by its exterior
If you’re trying to avoid long lines, Solomon recommends going to estate sales that are off the beaten path or even on the outskirts of L.A. County.
“At Silver Lake or Los Feliz estate sales, people are going to see the signs in the neighborhood and will just walk up,” says Solomon, who waited in line for two hours to get into a Silver Lake sale once. “But if you go to Sherman Oaks or Northridge or Covina, those places are probably going to be pretty chill.”
If you’re visiting a neighborhood for the first time because of an estate sale, Solomon recommends making a day of it and finding a coffee or lunch spot to visit afterward.
Discounts come to those who wait — but not too long
By the second day, there’s typically a price cut — sometimes 25% off or more — on the remaining items. The discount continues to increase — sometimes up to 75% off — throughout the rest of the sale, which could last multiple days.
You’ve got to weigh how much you want things and whether you’re willing to wait until the last day to get stuff really cheap — but also risk losing it, says Solomon. “And if you’re an absolute estate sale freak, you could go back” and buy the item that you were on the fence about at a lower price if it’s still there.
Don’t be afraid to ask for help
When Solomon found a 1969 Uten Silo — an aesthetically pleasing desk organizer worth upwards of $500 — selling for $8 at an estate sale, she boldly asked the host if she could borrow a screwdriver to remove it from the wall. “They’re ready to help you,” Solomon says. As long as the estate sale host isn’t busy with other customers, “ask them whatever you want,” adds Safaei of Golden Estate Sales.
Some estate sales have a hold table where you can reserve items temporarily — that way you don’t have to carry them around as you’re shopping. There’s usually a staffer keeping an eye on the table so you don’t have to worry about someone swiping your reserved item.
And if you buy a heavy item like a couch or mattress, some hosts will let you keep it on site for a while so you have time to borrow your friend’s truck or rent a U-Haul.
Haggle, but don’t be a jerk about it
“That’s why, if you want the best deal, go the last day because they’re just trying to get rid of everything,” Eleni of Blazed and Glazed advises. “Then you’re going to be able to get a couch for super cheap, because no one else can move it, and they just want to get it out of the house.”
Also, being respectful to the estate sale host can get you a long way: Eleni, who’s set to release a book about secondhand shopping in spring 2024, notes the number of people who have given her discounts “or items literally for free with my batch of things because I’m just being kind and friendly to them. So be nice, go in with a really good attitude and have an open mind for what an item can become, not just what it is.”
Moving forward, I’ll no longer consider stores like IKEA, Living Spaces or CB2 as the essential shops for bringing my Pinterest board to life. Instead, I’ll start my hunts at local estate sales for rare items that will make my space stand out from those on my Instagram feed — or at least spark a fun conversation when my friends come over.

